Understanding Human Behavior Towards Progress

Without understanding human behavior in group settings, democracy cannot succeed. And without the freedom provided by democracy, social science cannot flourish.
Inspired by Gordon W. Allport’s introduction to Kurt Lewin’s Resolving Social Conflicts (1948), reflecting on the work of Kurt Lewin and John Dewey.
This is one of the central ideas explored in the book Better People, Better Country. A thriving democracy depends not only on good laws and institutions, but also on a deeper understanding of how people think, relate, cooperate, and influence one another. If we hope to build a better country, we must first become better students of human behavior.

The Limitations of Moralistic and Structural Approaches to the Problems Facing the Philippines

“Both moralism and structuralism share the same underlying mistake: they treat human behavior as if it were mechanical.

In this view: beliefs cause behavior, rules produce obedience, authority ensures order.

But human beings are not machines. They are meaning-making, context-sensitive organisms.”

— Starfly Chua
*Better People, Better Country*

We often debate whether the problem is the individual or the system.

Some say we simply need better values, better discipline, and better people. Others say we simply need better laws, better policies, and better structures.

But human behavior is rarely that simple.

People and systems constantly shape each other. A better country is not created by blaming people alone or changing structures alone, but by understanding the context that influences how people behave.

When we understand context, we can design conditions where better choices become more likely.

*Better People, Better Country*

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The Invisible Forces That Shape Who We Become

“The unifying theme is unmistakable: the group to which an individual belongs is the ground for his perceptions, his feelings, and his actions. Most psychologists are so preoccupied with the salient features of the individual’s mental life that they are prone to forget it is the ground of the social group that gives to the individual his figured character.
Just as the bed of a stream shapes the direction and tempo of the flow of water, so does the group determine the current of an individual’s life. This interdependence of the ground and the figured flow is inescapable, intimate, dynamic, but it is also elusive.”
— Kurt Lewin, Resolving Social Conflicts: Selected Papers on Group Dynamics (1948)

Beyond Good or Bad: Looking at Context

In counseling, I do my best to avoid labeling my clients’ behaviors as good or bad, right or wrong. Instead, I ask a different question: In this particular situation, is this behavior helping the person move toward the aspirations they have for their lives, or is it getting in the way?

When Ai Becomes More Than a Tool

This morning, I had the privilege of talking about a variety of topics, with a special focus on the growing phenomenon of young people developing personal attachments to Ai.

My sincere thank you to DZXL RMN News for giving me the opportunity to share my thoughts–as well as my book, Better People, Better Country–with your listeners on live radio.

Here’s the full interview.  Fast forward to the 16-minute mark.

Are You Moving Towards Life or Running Away From It?

If you’re living life feeling tossed around by difficult thoughts and feelings, maybe it’s time to discover what truly matters to you. Once you do, your only job is to live it purposefully and intentionally, one challenging moment at a time.

The Values and The Logic of Living

Values are not conclusions reached by logic.
They are directions of living that organize logic.
Values supply the direction, logic provides the route.