This may be one of the most common errors in human thinking.
We explain behavior by looking inside people when we should first be looking around them.
This may be one of the most common errors in human thinking.
We explain behavior by looking inside people when we should first be looking around them.
Better People, Better Country
is rooted in the belief that the strongest critiques of dehumanization emerge not from outrage alone, but from real encounters with human suffering.

One unintended consequence of the prevailing disease or mental disorder model is that life slowly becomes a competition over who feels the best, the happiest, the most confident, or the least distressed.
But if feeling good were the ultimate purpose of living, we would expect our final tributes and epitaphs to celebrate people mainly for how good they felt about themselves.
We know that’s rarely the case.
Most obituaries are not about who felt the happiest.
They are about what people did.
How they loved.
What they built.
Who they helped.
What they stood for.
@onelifeonlycounseling ACT at the Movie! Shawshank Redemption Welcome to ACT at the Movies. This is a series where we take some of the world’s most memorable films and look at them through the lens of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy—or ACT for short. Now, just a quick caveat: I’m not saying these movies were written with ACT in mind. But what ACT offers us is a scientific framework—a way of understanding resilience, meaning, and growth—that shows up in the stories we love. Movies capture the struggles and choices that make us human. ACT helps us see the science behind why those struggles matter, and how people find the strength to move forward. So grab your popcorn, and let’s dive in. #onelifeonlycounseling #counselingphilippines #counseling #fyp #foryou
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Welcome to ACT at the Movies!
This is a series where we take some of the world’s most memorable films and look at them through the lens of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy—or ACT for short.
Now, just a quick caveat: I’m not saying these movies were written with ACT in mind. But what ACT offers us is a scientific framework—a way of understanding resilience, meaning, and growth—that shows up in the stories we love.
Movies capture the struggles and choices that make us human. ACT helps us see the science behind why those struggles matter, and how people find the strength to move forward.
So grab your popcorn, and let’s dive in.
Before I begin, let me make a quick caveat. I’m not here to say that the writers, directors, or actors of The Shawshank Redemption were in any way informed by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy—or ACT. Rather, what I want to share is how ACT, as a scientific model of therapy, gives us a framework to understand something timeless: human resilience.
The Shawshank Redemption is often remembered for hope. “Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things,” as Andy says. But when we look through the ACT lens, what we actually see are processes of psychological flexibility—the capacity to stay present, open up to difficult emotions, and move toward what matters, even in the hardest of circumstances.
This doesn’t mean approval or passivity. Acceptance in ACT means dropping the struggle with emotions we can’t eliminate, and instead putting energy into what we can build.
ACT teaches us that when life narrows, values can open a path forward. Even in a prison cell, Andy lives by a compass bigger than his circumstances.
Andy doesn’t deny the despair, but he doesn’t fuse with it either. He chooses to hold hope lightly, and act on it, rather than be consumed by thoughts of hopelessness.
One of the most powerful but often overlooked parts of Andy’s story is how he responds to sexual abuse in prison. The film doesn’t sensationalize it, but it shows us enough to know that Andy suffered deeply at the hands of others.
What stands out is that he doesn’t let this experience define him. He doesn’t collapse into despair, he doesn’t wallow in self-pity, and he doesn’t passively allow the abuse to strip away his dignity. Instead, Andy keeps moving. He resists where he can, he protects his sense of self, and he continues to build toward freedom.
From an ACT perspective, this is a striking example of committed action. The pain was real, the trauma was real, but Andy chose not to let it dictate the direction of his life. He kept moving toward his values—dignity, freedom, and hope—even in the harshest of conditions.
That’s the heart of psychological flexibility: not the absence of suffering, but the courage to keep walking toward what matters, even in the darkest circumstances.
Closing Reflection
So when we look at The Shawshank Redemption through the lens of ACT, we see a scientific framework for resilience. Acceptance of pain. Defusion from despairing thoughts. Values as a compass. Committed action, step by step, toward freedom.
It’s not that Andy or Red were “ACT-informed.” But ACT helps us understand why their story resonates so deeply: it reflects universal processes of human growth and survival.
If you enjoyed this reflection, I’ll be doing more short talks on ACT and movies—exploring how science and storytelling come together to show us what resilience looks like. Thanks for watching.
Nathaniel Chua, founder of One Life Only Counseling Services will be one of the keynote speakers in this upcoming virtual conference organized by the Association of Contextual Behavioral Science (ACBS) called LMIC (Low or Middle Income Countries) International Conference on November 17, 2023.
He will be speaking about Integrative Behavioral Couples Therapy (IBCT): An ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) Consistent Approach for Couples.
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In this episode for our series, Shrinks Over Drinks, I talk with Dr. Niklas Torneke, a Swedish psychiatrist who has authored three books in English and more in Swedish. Two of his books in English have been very instrumental in my journey into ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), RFT (Relational Frame Theory), and behaviorism. He is an authority when it comes to the uses of language and metaphors from an RFT perspective.
I have myself seen how his work has informed me inside the counseling room and how much it helps people see through the veneer of language.
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This is the second offering of our Two Shrinks Over Drinks series. This time we have a friend, who’s also a doctor and co-author of a book entitled, “Mastering the Clinical Conversation: Language as Intervention.”
Here you get another chance to eavesdrop on two MORE shrinks caught in a casual conversation. If you have ever wondered what it is like to listen to a couple of psychologists/counselors talk over a drink, well, here’s your chance!
In this second part of the chat with Matthieu, we discuss the following:
– Matthieu’s views about the DSM
– Movies that he saw from an ACT perspective and his views about the characters in the movie Les Miserables
– How clinging to rules can lead to loneliness and sometimes even suicide
– Hierarchical thinking and its relation to our choices of behaving
– What role psychologists play in changing behavior in society for the good